I emailed AJ about the whole Mem or Not Mem thing. And I added in a couple of things about how it was not safe for people to date. They emailed me back saying 'Sorry you are not a member!' I was not angry I was not a mem. I was angry mems were being mean. I am ok not being a member. I just do not want people to be mean. I emailed them back saying how I was not angry. And how AJ was not that safe. (people can date) And how they should put a couple words off of the dictionary chat.